What's enough?

How can you tell if someone cares "enough"? It might be simple to tell someone that they don't care enough (though not always easy), but how do you tell them that you are not sure if they do or do not care "enough"?

What even is enough?

I hate the fear to speak, and even so it should not be felt here. I shouldn't be afraid to speak.

I hate "almost". I hate lukewarm. I hate that you turn into the victim at the first sign of the most loving form of rebuke. You gave yourself away, and I should know better than to fall for another act of avoidance.